Dating an older guy in college
But once spring kicks in and the final stretch of the year draws near, the pressure of your impending long-distance relationship sets in.This seems really obvious, but it can be a difficult rule to stick to sometimes.Having a schedule that complements that of your boyfriend's is nearly impossible.There will even be days when too much work makes it difficult for you to see each other at all. But that time apart can make your relationship grow stronger.So whether you've dated a handful of these guys, one of them or all of them, these are the 17 guys you will probably date — or might have already dated — in college. He also wears ties to class in preparation for his future. This might have been during your All-American, "I have really intense school spirit" phase.You might also have been going through a political phase and thought this was the way you could affect The Man (or just the school administration).
There's so much you can get involved in while you're in college.Sometimes, these guys are just a one-night fling, and other times, they become such a fixture in your romantic timeline that they become the reason you take up songwriting. But oh, when the "we live next door to each other" goggles come off, mornings have never been more awkward. He keeps referring to you as "so young," and that's just mean and weird because you're only three years apart, and that's not a lot by any means. And also, stop being such a patronizing a-hole while you're at it. His guitar is named Sheila, which is also shameful in retrospect. He's probably going to be a doctor or biophysicist or maybe he'll move to Indonesia and develop a radioactive cure for something.But either way, if you're into dudes, these guys are a bonafide part of your college experience. Things seemed like they made sense when you first met. It's just so hard to be cordial and look at someone in the face when all you can see in his eyes ... I also listen to great music and sincerely love wearing Birkenstocks, you tell yourself sophomore year during your stoner phase. Unfortunately, he never lets you get a word in, either.When you find someone you really like, there is an instantaneous desire to constantly be with that person.College can be such a big, intimidating place that the opportunity to find someone who really understands you may seem like an impossible feat.