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Or maybe you’ve been a devoted reader of this site and now that you’re having some success, you’re feeling like a kid in the candy store and want to explore your options for a while.
Or maybe you’re just a serial dater; you’re in it for the rush, that new relationship energy, the passion and the thrill of sexual novelty.
The clearer everybody is on where they stand, the less chance there is for confusion, hurt and resentment.
When you’re still establishing the rules for your casual relationship, it is dick move that I’ve seen far too many people pull and a violation of the other person’s trust.
The people who do this are pustules on the collective ass of humanity who make it harder for the good-faith horndogs of the world and who deserve the wank-storm of karma that comes their way. The point of a casual relationship is that it’s supposed to be fun and easy-going.
It’s about the thrill of the new coupled with the ability to seek out what the world has to offer without being tied down by obligations or expectations to any one person.
As a general rule of thumb, casual relationships are more relaxed; there’s usually less emotional investment and less involvement.
Some relationships are strictly sexual while others are more companionable, but still without the expectation that they’re leading somewhere.
It’s also generally a good idea to keep things in the now.
For example, a lot of “date spots” are designed to be as romantic as possible – low lights, soft music, etc. Except those romantic areas aren’t designed to be a prelude for steamy, bed-rocking, don’t-come-knocking sex later on.
They’re designed to inspire feelings of love and affection.
But most of us come from a background where what’s considered acceptable “dating” behavior has a heavy tilt towards romance and monogamy.
It’s surprisingly easy to slip into the relationship frame without meaning to.
Or maybe you’ve decided that you’d rather have a few people you see on a semi-regular basis instead of just one monogamous partner.